What questions should I ask about sex and cancer treatment?

According to the National Cancer Institute, making a written list of questions helps you discuss sexual health with your doctor, nurse, or social worker. Helpful questions to consider include:

• What sexual changes or problems are common with this treatment?
• When might these changes happen, and how long might they last?
• Could any of these changes be permanent?
• How can these problems be prevented, treated, or managed?
• What precautions do I need to take during treatment — for example, should a condom be used?
• What method of birth control or contraception is advised?
• Are there times during treatment when I should avoid sexual activity?
• What specialist or support group would you suggest?

The National Cancer Institute notes that doctors or nurses may raise these topics, but sometimes you need to start the conversation yourself. You may also want to talk with a sexual health expert, and professionally led support groups and counselors can help you and a partner cope.

Because the answers depend on your specific treatment and situation, your care team is the best source of guidance. Bringing your list to appointments makes it easier to cover what matters to you.